Tuesday, December 28, 2010
This is supposed to be Christmas Eve... but never mind lah. I better get it posted before 2011...
Last Friday I went to Orchard, little Alex is at home with my mum. Can't possibly bring her along cos' I think she will go missing later and I can't catch her back. You know, she can go running so fast and daring.
The whole of Orchard is so packed with people. Even you want to take photos oso so difficult.
The passer-by will just walk in front of your camera, although some will stop and wait for you to finish taking.
Might as well forget it, man.
Anyway, it's for little Alex to "play" with, so I guess she oso doesn't know what is a CD drive.
Talking about this little Alex, She is getting her new bicycle. I think it's time for her to do a bit or cycling here and there, cos' the kids at the playground don't really give way to her. They would hog at the slide below and little Alex couldn't slide down. So we decided to get her a bicycle.
Lately she has defected to my mum. Now little Alex doesn't want to sleep with me at nite. I lay her bed for her, beside mine, and she would get up after lying down for a short while, took her pillow and went to the room next door....
I just bought a DVD player and little Alex can listen to her 打工仔... She just loves to hear this song. Just in case you're wondering what song title is that, it's 許冠傑 's 半斤八兩.
Last few weeks, little Alex is sick and the doctor told us to give her only 4 ounces of milk, just in case she will cough and vomit. My mother tell her to drink only 4 ounces of milk, and I once give her 5 ounces of milk. She will run to my mother and tell her "papa give me 5, not 4..."
She drew on the wall with her colour pencils and when my mother questioned her who draw on the wall, she will quickly bao-toh "papa draw one/yeye draw one.... not momo draw..." Last nite my mother couldn't find her sweets and little Alex told my mother that "papa took your sweets... you go and scold him later". It was covered by the newspaper....
Yesterday I had a meeting the teachers session at her school. Her form teacher said little Alex is very quiet in class and there are times where she will just sit and stare at her classmates when doing their writing. Initially the teachers thought she can't understand what they told her to do or she can't speak/listen. Later they discovered she is really smart. They said she actually understands very well, it was just that she doesn't want to write and not doesn't know how to write. When they told her that if she doesn't finish writing then later she can't go to the playground, she quickly finishes hers.
Now every morning when she wakes up, she will go and wash her hands and rinse her mouth by herself.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Damn, it's nicer than mine. I choose to get the laptop instead of having my subscription half by 50% cos' I intend to give it to little Alex. She is going to be 5 yrs old next June, cos' most probably she will be able to utilise it. It's using Windows 7, and I got no idea how Windows 7 operates. Some feedback that it's not so good, but what to do...
C'mon! Share with those who need it more than us. Rather spend the money buying unnecessary branded goods. Someone bought you Addidas instead of Nike, and you are unhappy... Sounds familiar?
Mother Theresa said it so well "If everyone of us will to JUST clean our own doorstep, the world will be clean".
Hurry, till 22nd Dec...
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Spot this big Christmas tree at the lobby...
what i got in my plate...fried carrot cake, fired rice, veggies, steam fish..
It was a night of eating and eating. I was so full that I almost can't stand up, nearly want to puke out. Luckily I didn't or else I will need to pay it myself, haha.
Saturday, December 04, 2010
Just bought 3 packs of luminous stars from Popular bookstore... In fact I got this idea long long ago, when little Alex is still little momo. That time she is still a baby so she might not be able to appreciate the stars, unlike now.
While she is still in school, I pasted the stars all over the ceiling. So when she is home, I took her by the hand and switch off the lights. Her face is filled with grins and I told her to lie on the mattress for a nicer view.
See the big star below the smaller star? Yeah, that's Papa star and Momo star...
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Same thing again, she keep on saying she wants to go to Orchard Road, and she can even tell me to take bus #174 and #502. When she saw either one of the buses, she will run and point her finger, shout "174/502.... momo want to take.."
This post won't be a long one, cos' it's the same routine again. We dropped at Tanglin Mall... then walk all the way downwards.
But this time round we manage to bounce into the flea market @ Tanglin Mall. Took little Alex to the toilet cos' she want to pee.
The Starbucks there is crowded and no empty tables for us. Not even the wooden tables outside the coffee chain, so we left.
I thought this time why not we try something else instead of Starbucks every time, so I took her to Spinelli.
Little Alex is so greedy. She ate with her fingers, she ate with the spoon, and she drops bits and pieces of it on the floor. I told her to eat with the spoon only, and eats it slowly. I didn't want to bother with her too much, she is a big girl now... I read my magazines and she is also busying eating her cake. Oh yes, I forget to take a pic of the Banana Spin Coffee... So she is busy eating her cake and sipping her coffee.
Then she tapped me on the hand and pushed to her the plate "momo give papa eat..." This is what remains on the plate for me....
After that we left Forum Gallery and walk downwards. I was thinking of checking out at the Cold Stone Creamery at Orchard Central but it is still under renovation.
While on the way downwards, I took some more pics...
Monday, November 22, 2010
Someone once said to me that success isn't everything, and I think I know what they really meant. I believe they really meant that money wasn't everything, and I certainly agree with that. But I do believe that success IS everything.
First you need to succeed to survive. We must take the seasons and learn how to use them with the seed, the soil and the rain of opportunity to learn how to sustain ourselves and our family.
But then second is to then succeed to flourish in every part of your life. Good question to ask mature people: "If you could do better, should you?" And I think almost everybody would answer the question in the positive. If you could improve your health, shouldn't you do that? If you can learn more, shouldn't you do that? If you could earn more and share more, shouldn't you do that? If you can improve your relationships and spirituality, shouldn't you do that? And I think that is what success is really all about. It is not just a destination that is set for everybody to try and go for.
It is like Zig Ziglar said, "Improving in every area of your life to see if you can with satisfaction at the end of the day, week, month and year, say ‘I have made excellent progress this year, for myself, for my family, for my business, my career and my health.'" I think that kind of success everybody recognizes is legitimate and something we should all strive for.
Interesting phrase in the Bible that says strive for perfection—not that we can ever reach it. But it is in the striving, to be a little bit better today than yesterday, in our speech, our language, our health, everything we can possibility think of.
So yes, in my opinion, success is everything!
Creating Opportunity by Jim Rohn
An enterprising person is one who comes across a pile of scrap metal and sees the making of a wonderful sculpture. An enterprising person is one who drives through an old decrepit part of town and sees a new housing development. An enterprising person is one who sees opportunity in all areas of life.
To be enterprising is to keep your eyes open and your mind active. It’s to be skilled enough, confident enough, creative enough and disciplined enough to seize opportunities that present themselves... regardless of the economy.
A person with an enterprising attitude says, "Find out what you can before action is taken." Do your homework. Do the research. Be prepared. Be resourceful. Do all you can in preparation of what’s to come.
Enterprising people always see the future in the present. Enterprising people always find a way to take advantage of a situation, not be burdened by it. And enterprising people aren’t lazy. They don’t wait for opportunities to come to them; they go after the opportunities. Enterprise means always finding a way to keep yourself actively working toward your ambition.
Enterprise is two things. The first is creativity. You need creativity to see what’s out there and to shape it to your advantage. You need creativity to look at the world a little differently. You need creativity to take a different approach, to be different.
What goes hand in hand with the creativity of enterprise is the second requirement: the courage to be creative. You need courage to see things differently, courage to go against the crowd, courage to take a different approach, courage to stand alone if you have to, courage to choose activity over inactivity.
And lastly, being enterprising doesn’t just relate to the ability to make money. Being enterprising also means feeling good enough about yourself, having enough self-worth to want to seek advantages and opportunities that will make a difference in your future. And by doing so, you will increase your confidence, your courage, your creativity and your self-worth—your enterprising nature.
Making Sales in Tough Times by Tom Hopkins
The best way to sum up a strategy for succeeding in uncertain economic times is a very old saying, "When the going gets tough, the tough get going." When business as a whole slows down, it’s nothing more than a slump. Many businesspeople say there’s little they can do to change the market and they just have to ride it out.
If that’s the way you think, let me ask you this: Where would we be if we all thought that way about our planet? Simple awareness and creation are the desire of millions of people to see improvement in the way we care for our planet. When you and your neighbor recycle aluminum cans, glass bottles and paper products, you are altering the doom and gloom projections for the destruction of the earth. If you can make a difference in something as major as saving the planet, there is definitely something you can do about the effects of an economic slowdown.
The key to finding success within crisis lies in how well you handle what is happening. Succeeding or failing depends upon your attitude—and this is never truer than in challenging times. In the good times, we don’t pay much attention to our attitudes, but challenges are constant in our lives, so if you are to succeed, you must keep your attitude positive, even in times of crisis. This is because most of the time, we are either moving into, in, or out of a crisis period.
In business, the economic climate is always changing. For much of the time, the changes that take place are caused by outside factors that we’re powerless to control. But we can control how we react to a situation.
When you began your selling career, what did you have a big supply of? Do you remember? Enthusiasm. Burning desire. Excitement. The feeling of "Watch out world, here I come. Now that I’ve got this terrific opportunity in sales, there’s no limit to what I can do."
Yes, you had enthusiasm and desire then. Yes, you were eager and excited about what you were going to do. No problem getting out of bed in the morning; you were raring to go. You had everything necessary for success, except for one item: knowledge. You simply didn’t know what you were doing. But that was OK; your enthusiasm made up for it.
Then what happened? Some months passed. You learned your product, your way around your territory, how accounts are found. But what happened to your enthusiasm?
It dwindled a bit, didn’t it? Your product is still as fresh to new clients as it was the day you started—it’s just not fresh to you anymore. You’ve had time not only to see the negatives that every industry, company and product has, but you’ve also had time to dwell on them and time to let these negatives affect your actions.
Your gain of knowledge merely matched your loss of enthusiasm and balanced your performance out to about average—far below your potential. Make no mistake about it: A champion is struggling to get out from underneath. A front-runner. A big earner. A highflyer.
So now you know what to do, but aren’t doing it. Why? In most organizations, lack of the specific product knowledge required for a sales position isn’t the main challenge among salespeople who’ve been there for several months. It probably isn’t for you, either. Motivating yourself to do what you already know you should do is the main challenge.
Why is this true? Because what you should do is not what you want to do. If it were, you’d be doing it.
Now we’ve gotten to the bottom of things. Why don’t you want to do what you know you should do? The reason you don’t is that you’re in conflict with yourself. This conflict comes about because the push forward of your wants and needs can’t overcome the push backward of your fears and anxieties.
Wants and needs are motivators and everyone feels them. "Have-to’s" and "need-to’s" are demotivators. When you feel a demotivator, you feel fear or anxiety, which is why demotivators are so powerful. They can dry your mouth, make your knees bang together like loose shutters in a wind, and light a fire in your stomach. Or they can work in soft and subtle ways to kill your motivation.
Almost every success-seeking person has been torn by this conflict at some point in his or her career. Many live with it all their lives. Perhaps we can’t eliminate the ongoing battle entirely, but we can decide whether we’ll lose every day, lose usually, win usually, or win every day. We can’t win every sale, of course. Forces beyond our control will cost us a sale now and then. That’s OK. What isn’t OK is to constantly lose out to our same old unresolved fears and anxieties.
Resolving those fears and anxieties is surprisingly easy when you know how to do it. The first requirement is to admit that you’re like everyone else—you have fears and insecurities. They may not show. On most people they don’t. But the people around you have them, and you have them. Recognizing that fact is the first gate you have to go through. The next one is to decide that you’re not going to let those beatable fears and anxieties stand between you and what you want in life any longer.
Write down what you can do to overcome them. Break them down into do-able steps and get on it. Every little step you take to overcome your fears brings you closer to letting that champion inside of you out. The answer to "why don’t I do what I know I should do" lies with only one person—YOU!
Sunday, November 21, 2010
See, full bar sia....
Little Alex is the most happiest...
Since Thursday night, she has been singing, jumping, dancing. She will creep into empty carton boxes and sit inside.
I ask here does she want to stay here or at the old place... She use her little cute finger and point here... I ask her if she wants to stay at the old place, she shake her head...
I told here that down here she can sing as loud and she wants and no one will scold here, jump as much as she wants and no one will scold her... Well, maybe will scold her a bit if she gets too noisy.
Now my house is no more dark, macham like neber pay power bills.
Now my house is free from the word "把你赶出去!" Sound so familiar, like you can always hear in the Taiwan drama. Now only I can 把你赶出去 hohoho... you 出去!! he 出去!! they 出去!!
Now little Alex won't be scolded by anyone, her shoes get thrown downstairs, her toys went missing, her CDs went missing, etc.
Now little Alex sleeps so peacefully.
Ever since last Sunday when I was staying here alone, I got the best night rest in my whole life. I slept at 2:30am and wake up at 5:30am. I tell you, you really can sleep so soundly even I only sleep on the hard floor.
Here in the morning is so damn cold. You want to know how cold is it? You try to imagine yourself in the winter time... I cannot tahan taking a shower early in the morning, so when little Alex wakes up I didn't bathe her. On Monday morning when I wakes up, I gundu go and take a shower... I was shivering like mad and I need to cover myself with blanket.
So much for the update, till the next time I shall blog again...
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Just a quick recap...